Good question Ruby. Because we don't live in a perfect word, we often find ourselves having to choose a less than perfect solution. We can all agree that putting things in the hands of the government, state or federal, is almost always a bad idea. Indeed, look what has happened because of this. The public school systems are used to keep an eye on parents to make sure that they're doing what the STATE thinks they should be doing. What a horrible situation to think that the STATE becomes the final say in what parents should do with their own children.
There is another very good point to make here. If you understand that there is a Creator, then you have to understand that it is the Creator that has decided who becomes parents. It is the CREATOR that has given the RIGHT for parents to do as they please to their children. Of course, there are good parents AND bad parents. This is just the reality in which we live.
A further point is this... and I think this is a good place to make this point because there's already a lot of discussion about RIGHTS vs STATE control due to the nature of this forum... OCing. Would you agree that having children is a right? Would you agree raising your children as you wish a right? How could you ever infringe on this right and yet still maintain a free country. I assure you, it was NEVER the intention of the citizens of the colonies to meddle in each other's family affairs.
I disagree. My children are mine! I posses them. Indeed, I will fight to the death anyone who attempts to do harm to them OR remove them from my possession. Most certainly they are NOT to be abused... and animals aren't either for that matter, but it is NOT the government's place in a free country to tell me what I can and can't do with my MOST PRIZED POSSESSION.
NEVER!!!! Children belong to the parents and the parents alone. A state that has the authority to remove children from their parents for what may be considered a GOOD reason can then empower itself to remove them for ANY reason.
This is a major misconception!! We are creatures that understand PAIN over ANYTHING else. We learn to keep from hurting ourselves because of PAIN. There is NO reasoning with a 2 year old. How do you keep a 2 yr old from touching a hot stove without letting him get burned? You cause pain ,in a safe way, such that the child will remember and associate.
Eventually, as the child gets older, a parent should move away from corporal type punishment. Other punishments like increased chore level, depriving of a favorite toy are useful only to the extent that the child obeys. If the higher level of discipline becomes difficult to enforce then it MUSt be enforced by the appropriate application of pain.
This is just straight nonsense.
NO!!! The future criminal AND the EXISTING criminal is created from LACK OF DISCIPLINE. It cannot be argued against that one of the most glaring issues with inner city children is the LACK of a father or sometimes lack of BOTH parents. NO one is there to PROPERLY discipline.
I got over it. I realized that my parents did the best that they could under the circumstances. The American people have a "victim" mentality so they think it's a good thing to blame their problems in adulthood on abuse as a child. I'm sure there are cases when abusive parents have caused major issues with their children, but that is a miniscule amount.
Here' a news flash to all of those that haven't figured it out yet. Even with the best parents, some people will still have difficulties growing to the adult level.
This is not directed at you Ruby, but adults in the US in general... GET OVER IT!!