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SouthernBoy wrote:
open4years wrote:
Me too! But, even though it may seem morbid, I think it is good to think through scenarios. Granted, most of us aren't LEO's, but they aren't put on duty being told to figure out what the right thing to do is, when it happens. They train for many scenarios.
We choose to carry a firearm. Some may carry only for SD. That was my original plan. But I couldn't stand by and do nothing when people are being injured or killed. I would not consider my safety before the safety of many. I couldn't live with myself if I had the means to stop a murderer and I didn't act because I was afraid of getting killed.
That is me. We are all different. My life experiences and my faith has created the 'me' that exists at this point. I don't have a wife or children
and I can imagine that can certainly change one's outlook on this scenario. But, by not acting you could cause another father, mother or child to die, perhaps more than one.
Let 's pray that none of us ever have to face this scenario for real.
Playing "what if" games is always a positive move... don't let anyone try to tell you otherwise. I have done this for probably more years than most
on this site have been alive for both driving and defensive shooting scenarios. And I can tell you for my driving "what if's", they have saved my life, and the lives of family members, quite a few times.
The best time and way to play defensive what if games is when you are in a potential situation/location which could turn real. A restaurant. Standing in a line. A mini-mart/gas station. A shopping center. You get the idea. Imagine situations in places such as these where suddenly something extreme begins to unfold. What you would do, how you would hope to react.
So play what if scenarios frequently. One of them could save your life.
I agree; No surprise there! I have also saved my life and the life of others by thinking through scenarios.
I was approaching a red light, after topping a hill. I played "what if" with the scenario of an approaching vehicle behind me. I realized they wouldn't have time to stop.
So, I left three car lengths behind me and I kept my eye on the rear view mirror. Then the scenario became real. A car was rapidly approaching and then they braked so hard, there was smoke everywhere.
I followed my plan. There was a grassy area to my right. First, I moved forward while watching the approaching vehicle. I realized that they would hit me even if I moved all the way up to the next vehicle. So, I drove off the road and onto the grassy area. The vehicle stopped one foot from the bumper of the car that had been ahead of me.
There was a study done (no, I don't know the source) years ago where two groups of basketball players were monitored to get a baseline of their abilities. Then one group practiced an hour a day, for two weeks. The other group spent an hour a day, for two weeks, imagining they were on the court and visualized themselves sinking throws.
I know that both groups tested, at least, the same. So, thinking through scenarios can be as good as the real experience. Many LEO's have stated they acted on reflex when 'it' hit the fan.
There have been many times in my life that I've saved my life and perhaps the lives of others. I rode motorcycles for several decades and I still would be if it wasn't for medical problems.
It isn't unusual for people to pull out right in front of you. I adopted the thinking that each driver was going to pull out in front of me. I weighed my options and quickly developed a plan. Part 1 was to get the driver to notice me. I never had a wreck, but I had some close calls. I would have been killed if I wasn't being observant and thought through scenarios.
I sold the Honda GoldWing, that I had ridden over 25 years. The guy, that bought it from me had a car pull out in front of him on a 35mph road. He died. I can't say for sure, but I don't think it would have happened to me. I drove, on that road for many of those 25 years.
If you don't think you need to do it because you carry a gun, then do so while driving. Drive defensively - which basically is thinking through scenarios. Is that car going to pull out in front of me? Decide what to do if it happens, or move to another lane to reduce the risk.
Sorry, I've taught driving courses and I owe my life to it for keeping my skills current.